SIEM REAP -- area code (855-63)

Hotel Be Angkor On The Passage, parallel to Pub St, Utopia Map, 012-246-912, 012-755-311, FAX 965-321, email. From the gay pioneers of Linga Bar comes this gorgeous, boutique accommodation exactly in the heart of Siem Reap's shops and nightlife, opposite Linga Bar and next to The One Hotel Angkor ("be" means "two" in Khmer). Just three private rooms, each designed in completely unique Cambodia Cool style showcasing the work of a different local artist. The room names hint at the eye candy to be found within: Bamboo, Saffron, and Sepia. Living area with large day bed, desk/dining area (your breakfast is brought to you at the time of your choosing), rain shower, and individual sun decks with views out over the tiled roofs of Siem Reap's heritage market area. Their Linga Spa for men is conveniently located just below on 2/F and fine dining is available in the Aha restaurant on G/F. Conde Nast Traveler Hot Hotel 2008. For the ultimate in luxury, ask about The One Hotel, which has -- you guessed it -- only one luxe duplex. Utopia Member Discount

Comments from Utopians:

"My bf and I had a terrific holiday at Hotel Be. We stayed in the Sepia room. Couldn't have asked for a better room. Totally sexy groovy. My bf was amazed. Was a great place to hang out and the staff were wonderful. The massage staff ... what can I say ... all sexy guys with hands from god. Martin (the owner) was so nice we think of him as a friend now. Linga right across the street and Aha downstairs couldn't be more convenient. The hotel also arranged a great guide for us, who was very well informed and also entertaining. This place rates as one of our best holidays! Love ya, Jeff and Yusuke." -- tokyojeff, Mar 7, 2010

"I stayed at Hotel Be Angkor and highly recommend it. Their Bamboo Room is on 3/F with private rooftop. Hotel Be Angkor shares staff with Seam Reap's only gay bar, literally across the door. Great staff, excellent amenities and bar scene is as best as Cambodia can get (from what I hear). I had fun and an amazing stay at Hotel Be Angkor." -- newcankor, Jan 29, 2010

Angkor Friendship Inn 56 Psakrom St, Vihear Chen, Svay Dangkum, Utopia Map, 965-197, 089-897-021, email. Gay-owned, gay and lesbian-friendly guesthouse with single, double, triple and quadruple rooms with large beds, TV (DVD on request), Wi-Fi, aircon, hot shower (quad room has tub), mini-bar, coffee/tea. Free breakfast. Reasonable rates. A short walk to the Old Market, shops, bars and restaurants. Splash pool and bar added in Sep 2009. Massage also available from masseurs or masseuses.

Comments from Utopians:

"I was four nights in Angkor Friendship Inn. I enjoyed to be there. It is very gay friendly. Donald is a very good host. The price of the room is good. Free breakfast, too. It is very near to the action, night clubs, restaurant, and Old Market." -- pierre4852, Mar 15, 2010

"Very good value, free airport or bus station pick-up. Large aircon room with minibar and breakfast and Net for only US$15/night. Located walking distance to bars restaurants and spas. Donald and Bong are great hosts and went out of their way to make my stay enjoyable. Also they have almost completed their swimming pool and bar area." -- bazz, Sep 13, 2009

• The Cockatoo Resort
  Wat Damnak Village, Utopia Map, 063-969-069, email. Gay-owned "country home" resort in a gorgeous heritage home and lush garden. Close to town and yet completely hidden away. Peter and Virgil have created an oasis for those who crave nature, culture, great food, and conversation in total peace. Gorgeous, private swimming pool. Rooms (no-smoking) are Asian-Deco style, with Peter's photographs. Virgil provides sensational home cooking with fresh, local ingredients. The veranda is the perfect place to shade during day or relax to a symphony of nature in evenings (frogs, cats, butterflies, birds, lizards and blue fireflies all find sanctuary here). Most charming is their Café-Bar Noir! showing classic films in an Indochine watering hole ambience. Free Wi-Fi, airport transfer and breakfast. Utopia Member Discount

  Ei8ht Rooms 138/139 Stung Thmey St (6 buildings from Romantic sauna and just next to Artisans d'Angkor), Utopia Map, 063-969-788, FAX 012-250-277, email. A small and discreet gay and lesbian-friendly guesthouse located just a short walk to the shopping and nightlife venues in the Old Market district and just a short tuk-tuk ride away from the magnificent temples of Angkor. Modern colors in clean, basic rooms with tropical-modern furniture and ceiling fans. Room rates start from just US$15 and all rooms come with aircon, cable TV, DVD player, in-room safe, mini bar and a bathroom. Well-stocked DVD library in the lobby, including gay feature films. Two free Net stations in the lobby and Wi-Fi in lobby and some rooms. Lovely patio garden in front and grass-huts on the roof for breezy sunsets. Their staff are smiley, helpful and charming cuties all who aim to provide you with a great experience, every day. Reliable and inexpensive tuk-tuk drivers are easily arranged through reception.

  Comments from Utopians:

  "This was my 3rd time staying at Ei8ht Rooms guesthouse and, like always, I'm treated more like an old friend than just another tourist. Even with all the newer and more expensive gay-friendly hotels opening up in Siem Reap, Ei8ht Rooms is still very well managed and maintained." -- moonman, Jun 1, 2010

  "I stayed at Ei8ht Rooms for 5 nights last Jan. The location is very good, just 5 minutes from the Old Market and Pub St. The room is not luxurious, but the beds are big and soft and the surroundings really clean. The staff is not only cute but, more importantly, very, very friendly and helpful." -- Brawn, Jan 29, 2010

• Golden Banana B&B
  Wat Damnak area, Utopia Map, 012-885-366, email. Gay-friendly bed and breakfast. Located in a small lane just beyond the southwest corner of Wat Damnak, across the bridge from the Old Market, shops, bars, restaurants and nightlife. Second in the lane. Private garden setting with eleven stand-alone ensuite rooms with aircon, fan, safe and hot water shower. Bar and food from the very good Khmer and international restaurant in the lane. Laundry, 24-hour room service and security. Prices are inexpensive. All three Golden Banana resorts are located in a relaxed village environment, thankfully lacking the "Hey, Mister..." hustle of downtown. Utopia Member Discount

  Golden Banana Boutique Hotel Wat Damnak area, Utopia Map, 012-654-638, 012-885-366, email. Located in a small lane just beyond the southwest corner of Wat Damnak, across the bridge from the Old Market, shops, bars, restaurants and nightlife. First in the lane. Ten duplex units built around a pool. Each duplex has a living room and either a garden or private balcony. All are furnished in a comfortable Cambodian style with modern luxuries like TV with DVD player, Wi-Fi and safe. Gay-owned though mostly friendly straight guests here (the Boutique Resort below attracts more gay patrons). Higher level than the B&B and excellent value for the money. Utopia Member Discount For more information and a reservation request, click to

  Golden Banana Boutique Resort Wat Damnak Area, Utopia Map, 012-654-638, 012-885-366, 012-287-988, 063-761-259, email. Gay-owned and many gay patrons make this their home-away-from-home. Located in a small lane just beyond the southwest corner of Wat Damnak, across the bridge from the Old Market, shops, bars, restaurants and nightlife. This private, garen oasis with huge pool is the largest and most luxurius of the three Golden Banana properties. Sixteen multi-level villas and suites with both rain shower and romantic outdoor baths. Plus open-ari deck and splash shower. Deluxe amenities: Wi-Fi, sumptuous beds, mini-bar, flat-screen TV, aircon and safe. DVD palyers available on request. Room service, poolside bar and very good restaurant in the lane. The airy and light-filled villas feature locally crafted furniture from sustainably-harvested palm wood, contemporary Asian art and Khmer hand-crafted silks. The resort utilizes a state-of-the-art German solar hot water system. Complimentary breakfast. Transportation and tour guide services, assistance with a plethora of local activities, and opportunities to contribute positively to local disadvantaged communities. Prices are very reasonable for these luxury duplexes. Utopia Member Discount

  Comments from Utopians:

  "Stayed at the Golden Banana Boutique Resort after a glorious seven day cruise up the Mekong. What a gem of a hotel...great staff, cheap cocktails, extremely clean rooms and just excellent in every way. Dirk is at the helm and a great friendly team of good looking and friendly guys at your service. A real pleasure!" -- galah46, Aug 30, 2010

  "I stayed for 5 days in Feb. Fantastic service, the staff are friendly and attentive, food was good. They organised onward travel for me to Phnom Penh and organised early morning pick up. The owner circulated with the guests every day and made sure everyone was comfortable and happy. The pool was a god-send after the temples as it really gets hot out there." -- ghekko62, Mar 31, 2010

  "Just returned from a fantastic holiday in Cambodia. Had the chance to stay at the Golden Banana Boutique Resort and was delighted." -- jeanv, Mar 30, 2010

  Hotel de la Paix Sivutha Blvd, Utopia Map, 966-000, FAX 966-001, email. Voted Travel & Leisure's #1 Hotel in Cambodia in 2010. Stylish and every inch designed to delight the senses (from the cool lemongrass breeze that greets you as you step into its stupa-like foyer to the jacuzzi nooks hidden in a pool that makes you feel like you're swimming into Angkor's hidden secrets). Gay and lesbian-friendly Hotel de la Paix is a socially conscious, hip fusion of Art Deco and traditional Khmer culture located just minutes walk from the nightlife and colorful markets. Their duplex rooms with massage table loft plus private outdoor garden bath and sunbathing patio are an OTT antidote to a long day of temple viewing. The garden courtyard bed-swings are the ultimate place to enjoy their superb breakfast. The art gallery/bar may, like the Colosseum, be flooded when the need arises for a reflecting pool. Spa, fitness room and wine cellar. They'll even pack a box lunch for your day out sightseeing. The hotel sponsors a local sewing training center for Khmer women (which you may visit), eco-tourism projects, and community support such as donating bicycles to area children so that they can get to school and pedal into their futures.

  Kool Hotel 18 National Rd, 6 Tapaul Village, Svay Dangkum Commune, Utopia Map, 097-216-7168, email. Kool Hotel is a friendly, gay-owned and managed 3-star property just off the Airport Rd as you reach town. Twenty-one rooms, nicely decorated with traditional Khmer motifs and modern amenities. Cable TV, in-room refreshments including coffee and tea maker, solar-powered hot and cold water, bathroom amenities, phone, Wi-Fi, remote controlled lighting, energy efficient aircon, and international electric sockets. Beautiful pool area with loungers and large salt water swimming pool for afternoon cool-downs. Just a short tuk-tuk ride away from the shopping and nightlife.

  La Maison D'Angkor

  71 National 6, Airport Rd, Utopia Map, 965-045, FAX 964-966, email. A gay-friendly, luxury hide-away in a landscaped tropical garden. Located minutes from the airport and a short tuk-tuk ride from town. Built in a traditional Khmer classic style, using timber and local fabrics, their large, clean and comfortable rooms will appeal to visitors who wish to experience the feeling of the Khmer way of life, but with completely modern amenities. Safe, desk with comfortable chair and Wi-Fi, mini-fridge, bright naturally-lit bathrooms, aircon and ceiling fans, individual balconies and lanais. A romantic jacuzzi is hidden in the garden and the gorgeous swimming pool and sunbathing area is perfect for cooling off after a day at Angkor. Their talented local Chef offers daily specialties so that you may discover Khmer cuisine in an open-air Indochine ambience. Breakfast included.. Utopia Member Discount

  La Palmeraie Airport Rd, Utopia Map, 092-952-113, 016-909-607, FAX +855-63-963-816, email. Private garden resort just near the airport turn-off and located in a lush, country setting. Nine rooms and two pools, including a large 5-room private villa and garden. Asian antique and art-appointed luxury rooms with modern amenities, balconies, aircon and fan. Large villa also features a gorgeous veranda and salon with bar, and kitchen. Four adjacent villas with private balconies, restaurant/bar and a large family-style suite with Bali-style outdoor bath and shower. The Asian heritage design reflects the personality of owner, Yves, a longtime resident of Siem Reap. Free airport transfers. Close to the golf course. Gay and lesbian-friendly. The resort is closed from June 1-July 15. Same owners as Madame Butterfly restaurant.

• La Residence d'Angkor (a Orient-Express Hotel)
  River Rd, Utopia Map, 963-390, FAX 963-391, email. This gorgeous, gay-friendly 5-star hotel incorporates beautiful Khmer architectural details. Located on the east bank of Siem Reap River, a short walk from bustling local markets and just minutes from the ruins at Angkor Wat. All 54 room and 8 suites are exquisitely appointed, with large en-suite bathrooms featuring an enormous free-form bath and shower with all amenities one could possibly imagine. Their restaurant, The Dining Room, is stylishly decorated and serves contemporary international and Khmer fine dining. Large swimming pool designed to reflect the romance and mystery surrounding Angkor. The relaxing, open-air bar upstairs is accented by contemporary ceramics and furnishings. BBQ restaurant (outdoor and indoor aircon seating) and pool bar along, spa and fitness center. Utopia Member Discount

  MEN's Near Wat Po Lanka, Utopia Map, 089-787-600, email. Five minutes tuk-tuk ride from the old town center and minutes from Angkor Wat (give your tuk-tuk driver the phone number above and he can call for directions). This exclusive gay men's resort has 10 rooms (deluxe suites and standard rooms) in a contemporary and stylish boutique resort. Free breakfast is served poolside or on the restaurant terrace and includes fresh baguettes and delicious homemade tropical jam. All the rooms are equipped with aircon, safe, free Wi-Fi, large LCD TV with satellite channels, telephone, and mini-bar. The guests can swim in the 18m long pool, lulled by the sound of their Balinese sea-foam stone water wall; or sculpt their bodies in the spacious and well-equipped gym. Guests have free, unlimited access to the attached spa and sauna area with steam, jacuzzi, maze, and private cabins. Enjoy your leisure time with local guys and tourists from around the world. Utopia Member Discount

  Comments from Utopians:

  "MEN's, the place to be! Probably the best small hotel in Siem Reap. We stayed there for 10 days and enjoyed it a lot. The architecture is very modern and stylish, rooms are very spacious and well equipped. The location is quiet and only 5 minutes by tuk-tuk (always in front of the hotel) to the Old Market. The staff are very friendly and helpful. The hotel offers sauna and gym as well, all included in the room rate." -- Stef770, Aug 11, 2010

  "A little bit of heaven here on earth. After walking the temples all day it is so nice to come back to the peace and quiet of MEN's and unwind in the pool, sauna, steam room and jacuzzi. The staff is so friendly and helpful. They go out of their way to make your stay as great as it can be. Always a sweet smile and friendly greeting. Of course the rooms are super clean and modern with free WiFi." -- LarryB, Jul 6, 2010

  "I recently traveled to Siem Reap, Cambodia with my partner, and we stayed at the MEN's, a beautiful spa/hotel close to the center of town. The staff were friendly, attentive, and professional, and they took care of every need. The two owners were warm and welcoming, and whenever we had a question about Siem Reap, touring the temples, restaurants, or even Cambodian history, they were always available to help. The rooms are immaculate and beautifully appointed, with a spacious walk-in rainfall shower. The air-conditioning was strong (important during summer) and we always felt comfortable. There is also a restaurant bar in the hotel, and the food is excellent, with entrees around US$5-6. What made our stay even more incredible is how inexpensive the entire vacation was. I would expect to pay 5-6 times as much for the room and services in the United States." -- speedracerny, Jul 3, 2010

  "No kids, no families...a Men ONLY resort. We HIGHLY recommend it. We stayed two nights at another hotel before coming to MEN'S for a massage. We asked to have a look at one of the deluxe rooms... after comparing it to what we were staying in, we checked in at MEN'S. The rooms were spacious, clean and well appointed. We both liked the colored theme given to each deluxe room. The staff were wonderful, friendly and extremely helpful. The service was WELL above what we expected. The salt water pool was so wonderful to come back to after spending time at the temples... it was a god-send! Massages were excellent, and food was great and reasonably priced. The spa and sauna were great addition and a great place to meet locals and other travelers. Clean, discreet and FUN! Our thanks go to ALL the MEN'S staff for making our first visit to Siem Reap wonderful, memorable and thoroughly enjoyable." -- JDAC, Jun 2, 2010

  "We had wonderful time at MEN'S resort and spa. Very cute and friendly staff. Beautiful and well designed rooms are clean, and comfortable. The swimming pool is just perfect for hot weather in Siem Riep and was always clean. It is located in quiet area, and not far from Old Market. Also, there are tuk-tuks in front (very nice, friendly drivers). We would love to come back and stay again. One word to describe our experience at MEN's: LOVELY." -- aznguyinsact, May 16, 2010

  "I tried the new MEN's resort and spa and can recommend it. If you like sunbathing at a fantastic pool, chatting with friendly staff and international guests, and relaxing in a sauna, this would be the right place for you. Good job on the architecture!" -- jeanv, Mar 30, 2010

  Mysteres d'Angkor Behind Wat Polanka, Utopia Map, 963-639, email. A garden boutique resort tucked away in a quiet neighborhood behind a pagoda, close to the Angkor temples and a short tuk-tuk ride to town. 24 rooms, including two suites, surrounding a beautiful swimming pool and massage pavilion. Rooms are decorated in Khmer heritage style using local wood, silk and ceramics. In-room safe, shower, no TV. Wi-Fi access in the lobby and restaurant. Gay and lesbian-friendly and perfect for those who want a calm, nature-filled retreat from the busy city.

• SiemReapRooms Guesthouse
  38 Phsar Krom Rd (200m from the Old Market), Utopia Map, 1220-8472, email. A small, well located, gay-friendly guesthouse with 11 immaculately clean rooms. Free breakfast, free Wi-Fi and free Net included. Utopia Member Discount

  Soria Moria Wat Bo Rd, Utopia Map, 964-768, email. Soria Moria is a clean, central, comfortable gay and lesbian-friendly 3-star hotel with a special touch, established and run by a young Norwegian couple, with a strong interest in the sustainable development of tourism. Their excellent staff always greet guests with a warm smile and do everything that they can to ensure the very best of Khmer hospitality. Rooms have satellite TV, safe, coffee/tea, mini-bar and full bath with amenitities. Wi-fi throughout. Rooftop bar and jacuzzi has a breezy view across the city. They are a just short walk or quick tuk-tuk ride away from the Old Merket, shops, restaurants and nightlife. Breakfast buffet is included. Utopia Member Discount

  Viroth's Hotel Street 23 (Wat Bo area), Utopia Map, 761-720, FAX 063-760-774, email. A gorgeous, gay-owned boutique hotel for those who are looking for a unique and quiet stay. A half block from the river and a short walk to the Old Market and nightlife. Seven beautiful rooms, with visually delightful Asian modern design, in a renovated 60s house with garden pool. Luxe rooms include a queen-size bed, writing table, Wi-Fi, cable TV, rainfall showers, ceiling fan and aircon, safe, and private balcony/patio. Relax in their rooftop jacuzzi with city view or surrender your worldly cares and woes to a masseur or masseuse in their couples' massage pavilian. Free breakfast on the breezy rooftop terrace/bar lounge. Refined Cambodian cuisine at nearby Viroth's Restaurant. The NY Times (July 2009) dares its readers "to find another hotel that is this chic and this cheap...".